Bengaluru Techie Suicide: Techie Atul Subhash tragically took his personal life after enduring relentless harassment from his estranged spouse. She relentlessly pursued him by means of a number of authorized battles, accusing him of dowry calls for and insisting on a staggering Rs three crore settlement. Overwhelmed by the fixed strain, Atul felt deserted by the very system meant to guard him, overtly accusing the household court docket decide of neglecting his pleas and siding unjustly along with his spouse.
In his last moments, Atul left behind a heart-wrenching 24-page suicide be aware that laid naked his anguish and despair. Moreover, he penned a deeply emotional letter to his younger son, pouring out his sorrow and putting the blame squarely on the unforgiving judicial system for steering his life in the direction of such a heartbreaking finish. Under is his letter – phrase by phrase – which reveals the ache he went by means of within the battle that he misplaced:
A Heartbreaking Loss: Atul Subhash, a younger man, tragically took his personal life.
– His spouse, pushed by greed, was already receiving ₹40,000 each month as upkeep, regardless of working at Accenture and incomes her personal cash.
– But, she demanded ₹2-Four lakhs extra.
– In a second of… pic.twitter.com/nSbQ6JNGWN
— Akassh Ashok Gupta (@peepoye_) December 10, 2024
“JUSTICE IS DUE
To my son – Vyom, I want to say a couple of issues. I hope he turns into smart sufficient to know it sometime:
Son – Once I first noticed you, I believed that I might give my life for you anyday. However, sadly, I’m giving my life due to you. I don’t even bear in mind your face now until I see photos of you if you had been 1 12 months outdated. I don’t really feel something about you now besides a tinge of ache generally. Now, You simply really feel like a blackmail utilizing which I shall be extorted an increasing number of. Although it will damage you, the reality is that now you’re feeling like a mistake I made. It’s simply unhappy that this shameless system could make a toddler a burden and legal responsibility to his father. I’ve met lots of alienated fathers, most of them communicate of comparable emotions when they’re being trustworthy. Few emotional ones die on a regular basis (figuratively) making an attempt desperately to be part of their kids’s’ lives. The system desires to do that to each father. I’m not going to do it. Until I’m alive and make cash, they may use you as a instrument to harass your grandparents, uncle and me to extort an increasing number of cash from me. I can’t let all this harass my father, mom and brother unnecessarily. Not even for you. I can sacrifice 100 sons such as you for my father. I can sacrifice a 1000 of me for you. However I can’t be the rationale for the harassment of my father. I doubt that you’ll ever perceive what a father is. However I do know precisely what a father is. He’s a privilege to have. He’s my final satisfaction. He’s the one I might at all times attempt to be. He’s the one who a son desires to problem. He’s the one who a son desires to make proud. A father son relationship can’t be written and even most likely understood. However it’s pointless to clarify now. You’ll not know me. I want I might have been with you. I wished to go on a lot I understood, learnt and knew.
This isn’t suicide however homicide, the regulation, justice course of and judiciary of this nation are liable for this. pic.twitter.com/HHfFEd8uMl
— खुरपेंच (@khurpenchh) December 10, 2024
Your inheritance was not cash however the values, love, violence, sacrifice, tradition, historical past, mind, data, rationality, irrationality, work ethic, household, buddies, particular person sovereignty, freedom, creation, destruction, will, vigor and spirit of a really fortunate and totally liked man that was to be handed to his son and what’s so very uncommon. Within the final three years, I’ve tried to know the modifications taking place on this planet. I used to assume that girls empowerment might be good and benign like many of the educated males. However It’s not so. This motion has gone rogue. This idiotic factor shouldn’t be going to cease at something earlier than destroying every part of worth and it should finish. Some outdated privileged elitist uncles and aunties would possibly attempt to weaponise the prevailing techniques to make a spouse equal to god and husband a slave in marriage to meet their so-called silly progressive agenda, that isn’t how it’s and by no means shall be. These poor males who purchase this idiotic philosophy would possibly survive longer however they change into slaves who neither really feel peace nor reside like free males. Some feminists say that marriage is a instrument of patriarchy to enslave ladies. I don’t know whether it is true, however I certainly know that it could actually by no means change into a profitable instrument to enslave males. It received’t work. All synthetic and derived techniques which have experimented and dared to wage warfare on man and his blood are going to finish in some way finally. Afterall, What has survived on this recognized universe that has threatened this apex predator and his blood? Males correctly created so many techniques like God, faith, morals, legal guidelines, society, marriage and many others to cease themselves from buying that feared persona of a destructor which permits prosperity to flourish, however every part evil born on this bubble shall get destroyed for a brand new part of creation to begin. It’s only a matter of time, all these unjust however seemingly good intentions will lead everybody to hell. Oops, sorry for happening this tangent, I hope you don’t have to seek out this excessive of your being however don’t hesitate whether it is certainly vital, my son! It exists in you for a cause and has its utility. I’m able to kill my physique due to this nice, pure, passionate and purposeful violence that resides in each man. The one factor that issues is the aim you utilize it for.”
This letter by Atul Subhash to his son teared me up. This can be a letter by a really clever, very rooted, very sensible man, who’s pouring out his anguish to a son who won’t ever have the privilege of realizing his father, because of his grasping mom and a corrupt decide! pic.twitter.com/eR2xVUCCrv
— Shefali Vaidya. (@ShefVaidya) December 10, 2024
Social media is abuzz with the case with netizens demanding authorized reforms the place males might get equal therapy.
(Discussions on suicides might be triggering for some. However suicides are preventable. If you’re in search of assist, some suicide prevention helpline numbers in India are 011-40769002 from Sanjivini (Delhi-based, 10 am – 5.30 pm) and 044-24640050 from Sneha Basis (Chennai-based, eight am – 10 pm), +91 9999666555 from Vandrevala Basis (Mumbai-based, 24×7).
